It’s Okay NOT to Be Okay
In our lives we have been trained to make things okay that are not. It is exactly what we tolerate in others and us that take us down. Saying I am fine, is a cover up because we do not know how to change what is hurting in our lives.
When we admit what we feel and know, then we can free ourselves, and heal and move forward. The ego’s original purpose was to help us survive trauma by covering things up, or making things okay that were not. From this we develop patterns of avoidance, excuses and reasons not to deal with what is hurting us.
Healing the ego wounds underneath these layers of protection and patterns is the journey to allow the truth and love to surface and stop sabotaging us.
As I work with clients’ serious illness and everyday problems, both physical and emotional, I find the lies in the head translate into breakdown in the person. As I work with professional clients, these are the same things that hamper inner and outer success and happiness. Remember it’s only when we admit a problem that we can solve it.
Truth Does Set You Free
Finding truth after years and decades of ego protection is tricky. It takes quite a bit to unwind what is set in us all of our life. It is good to have someone who sees you lovingly without judgment or blame to help you unravel what we cannot see that keeps us stuck.
There Are Always Solutions
When we know there is not a problem without a solution we can bravely seek those solutions. If we feel hopeless, we are stuck.
Releasing shame, blame, fear and attachment to ways that do not work for us is the journey. It is a process to allow the pain of feeling bad to melt away and have compassion that we all have much to release and heal as humans. We are naturally good and when we know that we can tap into our nature of goodness and be free.
It is a brave new pattern to acknowledge what is not okay immediately and face it to heal. It becomes easier when we stop blaming our self, and become curious and allow us to be wrong, in order to find solutions.
Allow self to let go of beliefs, fears, people, jobs and places that do not work keeps us happy, healthy and sane, even when others judged us. The ones that judge are family, friends and others who are stuck where we are free. Have compassion and do not try to match them.
A Lifelong Process that Gets Easier.
I have walked this walk consciously for decades. Truth has been my compass for freedom all my life. Finding the inner beliefs and fears that keep us from truth has been something I have worked with many teachers, therapists and Masters with over the years.
It is a daily practice. I have overcome illness and pain of all types by facing truth and finding solutions. This helped me develop a body of work, Be The Medicine, focused on us healing us.
Reread the above paragraphs they are profound and powerful when we embrace and live them. We deserve a happy, healthy life with good relationships and peace.
Best Wishes on your Journey,
Be The Medicine, Live the Power of You!
STRAIGHTARROW MEDICINE. Janet StraightArrow is available to guide you on your healing and awakening journey. After nearly five decades of research and practice with others and self, Janet has developed wisdom, accuracy and insight to see what is interfering with you. She sees and hears what you do not, which awakens you to a new perspective, and changes your life immediately.
As the ego wants to hold us in place. Janet is patient in helping you see yourself true in love and understanding as we unravel all of the pieces, and you learn to live the solutions. Its an amazing journey and worth the trip. Janet may be the last person you call after trying everything else, she will be the first person you refer to others to shorten their journey.
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