To live zero tolerance is being StraightArrow. It’s all about no BS, with and for others, and especially us. After decades of study and experience in healing and enlightened successful, healthy and happy living, the benefit of this holds true with great results, through and through.
Making okay what is not okay, and allowing it to continue, does not work and creates drama, chaos, illness, depression and pain, and disassembles relations on business, personal and global levels.
Little white lies turn into big fat lies. Supporting the lies to maintain a relationship does not work. Hoping to change people, making excuses, or being afraid that someone might not like or except you, or your truth, magnifies problems and eliminates solutions.
NO MIDDLE GROUND
A lie is a lie a truth is truth. There is no grey area only confusion, which indicates someone slipped in a lie, and wants it to be truth. Confusion disappears when we see what it is, and release it to make room for truth.
I grew up in a time where people talked about black or white and slipped into the grey zone to be comfortable. None of them were truth as they all held lies of belief, fear and control. Now its time to let go of the rules that make no sense, and learn to discern and discover the truth and the lie, and stand for what is true for you.
LET GO OF FEAR AND PEOPLE PLEASING
When I first suggest zero tolerance to someone, they panic a bit, as they instinctively know it will take enormous change to accomplish this. Since it’s a worthwhile journey, I suggest a softer approach, be gentle and kind and allow your awareness to grow. It’s a process and a practice and it takes staying awake to things you have been so well trained to ignore.
One day last month I was walking around a small vacation town, and throughout the day I watched and heard three people in three different places, specifically ask for what they wanted, and settle for something else without a word said.
I have since had two sales people try to use the tactic of trying to talk me into accepting that I did not want. With the sweetness of honey rolling off their tongue, I heard the manipulation and said no, we are done. I realize they do this because they can, and it works. Insurance companies have a policy of denying valid claims a certain amount of times, expecting people to give up. This saves them millions of dollars. Speak up.
Why settle for less or lose money and self-worth, instead of standing up for truth, and self, and others too? This is not being adversarial, it is being clear. Until we all do this, our world continues to support pain, loss, victimhood, unhappiness and lies.
TRUTH DOES NOT MAKE WAVES IT CALMS THE STORM
To say, no, thank you, or, I asked for this, or walk away when ignored, is important in professional circumstances, and personal too. You build trust and respect, and become someone that can be depended on, especially you with you.
Begin your journey today and notice when you say what you mean, and mean what you say, and when you don’t. Notice when you stand behind truth, and when you back away. Catch you and stand true and see your body and world relax into a powerful, peaceful and clear alignment of you.
Explore and have fun with this.
Grace, Love and Delight.
Be The Medicine, Live the Power of You!
Call Janet when you are ready to go deeper on your journey of truth and you.
After decades of study and living this, StraightArrow sees what many do not and quickly and easily brings you back on track.
A loving, compassionate and joyful guide on your journey, Janet assists you in solving problems and finding solutions in all areas of your health, career and life, by you walking your highest most aligned walk of you.
Its fun, exciting and freeing, so be ready for more joy, confidence and clear direction in your life, loving being you!